Read What Nigerians Think Of A Woman Proposing Marriage To A Man








Nigerians living in Abuja on Wednesday expressed divergent views on whether a woman should propose marriage to her male partner.

Some residents, who spoke to the News Agency of Nigeria in separate interviews in Abuja, said it was not an advisable action to take.

Rose Chukwuma, a marriage counsellor, stated that there was nothing wrong in women actually proposing.

“There is the will you marry me question and the marriage suggestion.

“Women know who they are comfortable enough to get married to so if a woman feels the guy is dragging his feet, I recommend she suggests marriage to him.

“She can simply ask him where the relationship is headed.

“She should give the man hints that show she is interested and create an atmosphere for him to pop the question if he is serious and if he still doesn’t, she should take the hint and move on.
Ms. Chukwuma, however, added that she would not advise women to make the final proposal.

“When a woman proposes by officially popping the question and getting him engaged, she gives him room to take her for granted and most men do take advantage of it,” she said.

“Men also don’t support the idea much because it makes them lose their voice of authority or leadership in the relationship which makes it boring.”

Uche Ibezim, a pastor of Christian Outreach International Church, said that the Bible didn’t support women proposing to men.

“Godly men take their time to analyse the relationship and put it in prayer before proposing, and all that is done because they know the responsibility acquired from a successful proposal.

“The Bible emphasises on men providing, instructing, leading and protecting their wives and family, so if a woman proposes, she is saying she wants to take up the man’s role.

“The Bible says wives should submit to their husbands as the husband is the head of the house as Christ is of the church and this submission refers to women following the lead of their husbands.

“It also says that he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord, not she who finds a husband.

“Women proposing to men might lead to some successful marriages, but in most cases the reverse is the case,” he said.

Isa Abubakar, an Islamic studies teacher, said it wasn’t wrong for women to propose marriage as far as it was done according to the Islamic rules.

“If a Muslim woman is interested in a man who is worthy of her she is free to honourably approach him with a marriage proposal.

“This may be seen as improper to some Muslims from different cultures but it is a cultural attitude, not an Islamic one.

“She could do it indirectly by asking her parents to ask his parents or by requesting the assistance of a relative or mutual friend.

“If she decides to go herself, she has to abide by Islamic laws such as asking him for a meeting in public along with a friend or relative to act as a chaperone.

“She has to be mindful of her appearance and body language too,” he said.

Patience Osanya, a civil servant said that she doesn’t like the idea of women proposing to men.
“A woman is to be won like a prize, not to be given out like a souvenir, so the best she can do is to give the man signs that she is interested in getting married to him.

“By the second year of dating my husband, I had shown him marriage signs even by spending a couple of weeks at his place every now and then.

“At a point I asked him if we were cousins that were sharing a house and he responded no.
“Two weeks later he proposed to me.

“Women just have to communicate indirectly,” Mrs. Osanya said.

Adam Bahdmus, a driving instructor, said he saw nothing wrong with women proposing as far as the women were ready to take up the responsibilities of the men.

“Proposing marriage means the person asking is willing to cater for the prospective partner and be responsible for the person.

“Therefore, if she wants to propose to a man, she should be willing to bare the marital responsibilities, which includes paying the groom price.

“If the man is willing to be a househusband while she works to finance the home she shouldn’t complain because she asked for it by proposing,” he said.

Kunle Ijagbemi, an auditor, told NAN that there was nothing wrong with the proposal and that he viewed such women as bold individuals who were go getters.

“I respect women who decide to do such because, it displays self-confidence and shows the woman is a go getter, but that at times can be scary to some men.

“I have always imagined how I would propose to a girl but I’m scared of her saying no, therefore I will prefer to be proposed to.

“African culture believes that the woman is made to look cheap if she does that, but if a woman is sure that she has found her man she should grab him.”
Ur views on dis issue guys...

I was watching one American
film yesterday night
with my Dad and Mum, as we
were watching the
film, a young boy of my age
started romancing
his girlfriend, they kissed each
other and when
the guy's hand crossed the girl's
private part, I
looked straight at my dad and
noticed that his
eyes had changed, then I focused
my eyes more
on the film even though I knew
my dad wanted
me to leave the parlour at once, I
did not care.
They were still kissing, this time
hotter, then they
both fell on the bed and the guy
was about to
open the girl's brazier.
My Dad looked at me with his red
eyes and
shouted
"have you ironed the car?"

I ran into a mosque carrying a
brand new cutlass and asked,
"Who is a Muslim here?" The
whole
mosque went as silent as a
grave yard. I
asked again, "How can a full
mosque have
no Muslim?".
No one replied. Then I grabbed
the nearby
young man and went out with
him and told
him, "Come
and help me kill my ram for Ileya
because I don't
know how to do it". After the
young man
had killed the
ram, he told me that he didn't
know how to
skin it and that I should go back
to the
mosque and
get someone else to help me do
that. I
returned to the mosque with
the cutlass
dripping with blood. When the
Imam saw
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dripping
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Could this be the reason why our economy is
TECHNICALLY on recess and / abi in
recession?
1. President: WAEC
2. Vice president and Head of Nigeria Economic Team... Studied Law.
3. Minister of Education studied Accounting
4. Minister of Solid Minerals studied
International Relations.
5. Minister of Power studied Law
6. Minister of Communication studied Law 7. Minister of Transportation studied English/
Literature
8. Minister of Labour studied Medicine.
9. Minister of Budget and Planning studied
Law.
10. Minister of Housing studied Law. 11. Minister of Works studied Law.
12. Minister for Sports studied Law.
13. Minister for Budget and Economic
development Studied Law
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add the remaing

LADIES MUST STOP DOING THESE THINGS ITS ABOMINATION NOT LOVE

1. Living in the same room or sleeping on the same bed with a man who has not married you; (this is abomination).

3. Wearing the engagement ring of a man who doesn’t even know your parents or house; (You are wasting your time & blocking God's blessing).

4. Using your boyfriend’s picture as your profile picture on social network, thus blocking serious and potential suitors; (that is a serious /destiny mistake).

5. Giving your virginity or submitting your crown to a man who has not married you. (You have wasted your glorious destiny & lost your dignity in life)

6. Cooking food regularly and washing clothes for your boyfriend; (Slavery attitude: that's starting what you cannot finish even in marriage).

7. Disobeying your parents for the sake of a man you are dating. (It is Stupidity; Are you out of your mind? Why can't you convince them through GOD intervention ).

8. Giving sex to a man simply because he promised to marry you; (Haba! Na you be the oldest woman for this life? It is the loss of your soul & giving up on God)

9. Sending your Unclad pictures to your boyfriend or romantic postures with him either; (shame on you, that is what he will use against you anytime you said it's over).

10. Why will a boyfriend beat you and you will still be saying that you can't do without him; (hmm, you need deliverance. This is not love. It is the foundation to a painful future).

11. When a man keep cheating on you and you still say that you can never leave him, (Hmm, you need prayers 'cos you've started digging your grave)

Note: Don't be too desperate in the matter of relationship; as you are desperate to read other numbers and you did not notice that number (2) is missing above.
Relationship is more than catching fun now.

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In India: Bollywood
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In Kenya: Firewood

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